Mistress Alessa was chilling with her friend when she learned that her friend had never tried domination fetish before and specifically human ashtray. The mistress had to make it happen and she did so by coming with a loser and having her friend try it on him. The guy had no say in the matter and the mistress showed her friend how it was done and they had fun doing it together.
Mistress Alessa had a weak husband and she felt that it was time to try and make him to man up and be stronger than he was. The mistress did not want someone who could easily be tossed around and so she used her cigarette on him. The mistress made him her human ashtray and had him experience both pain and humiliation as she wanted him to learn from it.